by Mistress Rachel of www.edgingphonesex.com
Let’s talk for a moment about edging phone sex and why so many men find it enjoyable. Many people think that there can be no greater moment of sexual ecstasy for a man than the orgasm, the actual collection of pulses and throbs and accompanying streams of hot cum shooting from the cock.
But we at EdgingPhoneSex.com understand that there are many reasons a man might receive a greater sense of satisfaction from putting off that moment of ecstasy than experiencing it the moment the impulse strikes. Why?
What happens after you cum? Sleepy, maybe a little bit hungry, but overall, all sexual energy has been spent. It’s all over, the tension and anticipation, the heightened senses, and most importantly, all the pleasure.
Many men feel that they are in an altered state when awaiting an explosion, and it’s that natural high they chase. That state can last as long as his stamina, while the pleasure of an orgasm only lasts for seconds.
What’s more, something that comes and goes so quickly, like an orgasm, should be made into an event, not something as mundane as brushing your teeth, which is what mindlessly jacking off sperm has become for many men. Edging aficionados appreciate the value of receiving something they’ve truly worked for, something for which they’ve broken a good, honest sweat.
Further, they realize that the intensity of the experience is amplified exponentially, beyond a few seconds of pleasurable contractions and a weak little dribble, when they put it off for as long as possible. “Good things come to those who wait” wouldn’t have become an adage if there weren’t a wide range of applications to it.
And still other men want to be as pleasing to their partners as possible. Many women say that they can’t cum from intercourse, but the fact of the matter is that most simply haven’t had a man who could give them the sustained pounding they’d need to truly find out.
It’s simply too much stimulation for them to last that long at that level of intensity. Men who have discovered the benefits of edging get to know their own cocks so well that they know just how to make them feel the best, but develop a level of control that allows them to stave off the explosion, and thus, the end of the fuck for the woman before she’s completely satisfied.
But most men who are interested in edging simply want to give up control of when or if they cum to an experienced Masturbatrix. Each Mistress at EdgingPhoneSex.com has her own preferences and personality, so there will be someone who can teach and train you to edge, as well as hold you accountable for the goals you set for yourself, no matter what your reasons are for having decided to try it.
But to be sure, each of us is first and foremost a dominant woman. Controlling men, and their cocks, is our bread and butter, whether a submissive edger wants to be sensually cajoled and gently admonished, or whether he wants to be cruelly tormented by a mean Mistress who takes pleasure in his desperation.
Which type of man are you? What ever has brought you to our domain, you can be assured that you will be edged the way that will benefit you most, whether that is to the edge of oblivion, or the edge of insanity!