What Is Orgasm Edging?
What is orgasm edging? “Tease and denial,” “taking it to the brink,” “peaking,” “surfing,” are all common terms for the sexual practice of orgasm edging—a controlled holding back of an orgasm to prolong powerful, intense, sexual sensations. In recent years, the tantric-based tool has exploded in popularity and practice.
The bottom line is edging is hot, for you and your partner, or during a solo masturbation session on your own. Using the act of gradual, consistent stimulation and then reduction, you can bring your partner or yourself to a pre-orgasm plateau and stay there in a highly aroused state for an unusually extended and enjoyable amount of time.
Instructions and how-to guides with popular edging techniques have slammed the Internet. From the infamous “Venus Butterfly” to the newer “One Hour Orgasm,” step-by-step words and pictures to teach you a thing or two are at your horny fingertips.
Orgasm Edging Requires Skill
Crazy as it sounds, edging requires a degree of skill. It’s not just a stroke and stop thing. It requires enough familiarity and comfort with a partner, or self-awareness when you’re on your own, to be able to vary the pace, timing, and intensity of the sexual stimulation and not prematurely blow your wad in the process.
If there’s too little stimulation, or the intensity is too quickly reduced, edging can turn into a ruined orgasm, or at the very least, not much more fun than a bad blow-job.
Are you turned-on by the concept? Want to give it a try?
Let’s solo-go-it first. Some guys like to slip on a cock ring to begin, slow stroke it, then remove the ring as their cock begins to engorge. Do it or skip that. The key is to slowly stroke your dick, not whack-away. Some play instructions suggest actually counting the number of strokes you are allowed to reach your “edge,” like 700 or so, adding a mental limit to getting yourself aroused. If numbers are your friend, then do it. Restraint and tease are key.
Others suggest a basic place to start is with a timed tease. For example, grab your favorite lube and a timer. Stroke your cock slowly, up and down, ten times in 40 seconds, then rest for 20 seconds. The next minute, add five more strokes, making it 15 strokes in 40 seconds, then rest again for 20 seconds. Repeat that for 20 minutes, with five additional cock strokes added each time, till you reach the edge.
You are NOT allowed to cum!!
Slow Strokes and Discipline
If numbers and timers get in the way, you’ve really got to know or learn your orgasm threshold to get it right. Across the board, all the tools to the trick of edging require slow strokes and discipline. Practice will eventually get you there, so masturbate-masturbate-masturbate until you’ve mastered it! And when you do, your hyper-aroused results will be incredible. Imagine sustaining that wad-blowing intensity in your balls and cock for hours!
So, are you hard yet? Remember, edging means you’ve got to keep your dick that horny and hard for as long as possible.
One Hour Orgasm
Let’s bring in your partner. She’s probably super-wet already just hearing you talk about your solo turns at edging.
The “One Hour Orgasm” technique is where a man’s fingers lightly stimulate a woman’s clitoris, while the woman and man are lying down, their legs wrapped around each other. The man stimulates his partner to her edge using steady thumb pressure on the side of her clitoral hood, while the other thumb gently penetrates just inside the vagina. The dual, steady, stimulation is continued to the woman’s peak of orgasm and then slowed down and stopped, only to be gently started again.
Another edging technique combines the thumb-vagina penetration with cunnilingus. Here you lick a woman’s clitoris with your tongue, and simultaneously penetrate her vagina with your finger. Bring her to a hot, frenzied almost-climax, and then slow down and stop.
Edging is an intense and intoxicating way to prolong the maximum effects of a passionate, heated sexual cycle.
So unzip your pants and whip-out that dick. Get stroking low and slow alone at your computer or over the phone. Take it into the bedroom with your horny wife or get down on the floor with your dripping wet girlfriend. Just get edging and stay on the brink of shooting your load for hours!