What Is Delayed Orgasm?
What is delayed orgasm? Delayed orgasm is prolonging the orgasm to experience the intense pleasure gained from orgasm edging.
The sexual encounter begins with some tender strokes and caressing. Or not. Maybe it’s all about the heat, hands grabbing for zippers and buttons, stripping-off of clothes, tongues locked in a deep-throated kiss. A rock-hard cock and a dripping wet pussy. Sucking, fingering and fucking go on for minutes or more and eventually crescendo in—what? No orgasm?
That’s right. The orgasm is intentionally delayed for heightened sexual pleasure. Holding back for more heat. Sounds whack, right?
“Delayed orgasm” is where a sexual peak is reached, an aroused state is heightened to the max, and then abruptly or gradually the arousal is stopped right before the Big-O!
Delayed Orgasm: A Tool For Your Tool
The concept of delayed orgasm is not new. Delayed orgasm techniques, particularly, have been used to help men with premature ejaculation syndrome for decades.
At this time, these fix-its for early cock-shots are being used for prolonged pleasure and extended arousal. Also, the cool thing is, if you are prone to rocket your cum a little too early, delayed orgasm techniques will help you out on both fronts.
Grab Your Dick and Let’s Start
The most important thing to remember in mastering delayed orgasm is knowing your orgasm threshold. That is the stimulation required to get you there. Followed by the stimulation required to maintain arousal. And, finally, the point at which you need to stop before you blow that creamy-white load. All are equally important, so don’t drop your balls when learning any of them.
Assuming you know how to masturbate (and if you don’t, now would probably be a good time to start), grab some lube, cause we’re getting ready to ride that hot-and-horny friction train. Pour it into your hand to warm it up. If you’re not down with the lube, use some spit. Start working yourself up. Slow strokes or fast ones, it’s up to you. Just remember, the point is not to squirt in a minute, it’s to extend that insanely intense I’m-about-to-explode feeling for as long as possible. As your cock engorges with blood, flick the tip. Is it sensitive? Make you want to cum? Hold back, man. Wait!
Balls and Ass, Too
Massage your ball-sac. Some men launch their load the minute a woman sucks their balls or plays with them. Is that you? Are your balls super-sensitive?
Some guys dig anal self-stimulation. Are you one of them? Do you finger yourself in the ass while you masturbate? Is that the way you quick-cum?
When you’ve massaged, teased and stroked yourself to the edge of that orgasm rollercoaster ride—stop. If you find that the abrupt interruption of stimulation causes you to ejaculate, then you may be one of those who need to gradually slow the stimulation as you reach your peak.
As you experiment with the techniques and learn your stimulation, arousal and ejaculation cycle, delayed orgasm will send you and your dick soaring to the ledge of the hard-on cliff and let you enjoy that maximumly intense, ready-to-cum view for a lot longer.
Delayed Orgasm For Two
Now it’s time to teach your partner this new sensual and sexual treat. To reiterate, what’s most important to remember in mastering delayed orgasm is knowing the orgasm threshold for you and your partner. In brief, the stimulation required to get you both there, the stimulation required to maintain you and your partner’s arousal, and the point at which you each need to stop before you orgasm.
A suggested technique that prolongs and intensifies a woman’s arousal is a combination of penetration and stimulation. Place one finger just inside her vagina and one finger to the side of her clitoral shaft and steady-stroke her to the point of orgasm, then stop. Do this orally by licking her clit hood and fingering her pussy at the same time. Again, get that pussy soaking wet, then stop.
Another suggestion is to work each other up orally. She licks and sucks your cock until it starts to get hard and you lick her clit until her pussy is mega-wet. Then you both stop. Have a drink. Eat a piece of chocolate even. Then start the process all over again, two or three more times, until you explode in orgasm. Remember, delay, delay, delay.
One more technique suggests that as you two fuck like crazy, when you reach your peak, pull out, turn over on your side, slow-breathe in and out ten times to a count of fifty. She does the same. This is because the counted breathing slows the respiratory rate a bit. At the same time, it intensifies the sensitivity of the nerves, actually extending the feeling of heightened arousal.
Solo or duo, the delay or holding back of orgasm makes for horny, heightened, and good hot sex!