I know this site is, technically, about masturbation endurance training, but in my book, masturbation goes hand in hand with tease and denial. You can be masturbated by someone else just as easily as you can masturbate yourself. Agreed?
So it naturally follows that a masturbation manager may be someone who tells you how to masturbate or someone who takes matters into her own hands, so to speak.
I am one of those Femdom Mistresses who likes the hands-on approach. You could even say I’m a bit of a perfectionist. I believe no one can do things quite as well as I can. So when I engage in masturbation endurance training with one of subbie boys, then I’m the one who does the masturbating. You just can’t trust a slave not to slip up and disobey, even when he doesn’t mean to.
In addition to being a perfectionist, I also have a penchant for being worshipped. Almost any kind of worship is good, really. Anything that shows a slave’s devotion and acknowledgement of my superior position over him is quite acceptable. Body worship, in particular, is a real favorite.
Of course, the absolute best session I could have with a subbie is a combination of the two. You can ask those subbies in question….I am well-known for mixing tease and denial with body worship to create a sensual experience unlike any other.
Intrigued?
One thing I’ve found in my experience as a dominant Mistress is that combining stimuli exponentially increases the desire and willingness to serve and obey. That’s my reasoning behind mixing together certain elements that I enjoy. Well, that and the fact that I simply love body worship. Happily, that’s my prerogative as the Mistress in this relationship!
Almost any kind of body worship mixes well with my tease and denial games. So the type of worship I choose really just depends on my mood at any given time and which body part or parts of mine I feel need attention.
Foot worship, for example, works very well with tease and denial. If I allow my subbie the privilege of lying on my bed, then we can place ourselves in the perfect position to pull it off. I just have him lie on his back, and I sit or lie down beside him with my feet pointed toward his face. It’s sort of a modified sideways “69” position without the oral sex part! I can lay my feet on his chest for him to massage or press them against his lips for him to kiss and lick them.
While he’s thus occupied, then I can begin my own little masturbation marathon with his little subbie cock. As my feet are enjoying his attention, my hand gently snakes its way around his (already hard) dick and starts to tease him as only an experienced tease and denial Mistress can.
As my subbie boy gets deeper into his foot worship session, my prick teasing gets more intense. I bring him closer and closer to orgasm, using orgasm edging. When he sucks my toes into his mouth, I stroke him until his whole body is trembling on the verge of release.
Then, I wrap my fingers tightly around his cock, right under the head. The tight squeeze doesn’t allow any cum to escape, and he just groans in frustration.
Of course, foot worship is not the only form of body worship that lends itself to tease and denial. Face-sitting is another good one for Femdom body worship mixed with tease and denial. Having my sweet little subbie worshipping my pussy and ass while I tease him is divine.
It also doesn’t hurt that I know how much he loves the taste and scent of me. All it takes is one deep breath while I sit on his face to make his cock raging hard. I don’t even have to touch it! And, of course, once he has a taste of me, he’s already poised to cum. Not that I let him, mind you, but it amuses me to know that that’s all it takes.
And now for the answer to the ultimate question. Do I let my little subbie boy cum after he’s showered me with so much attention and affection? Maybe. And maybe not. Like everything else, it all just depends, really, on what kind of mood this capricious Femdom phone sex Mistress is in.