Ten Ways To Stay On the Edge Of Orgasm

Nothing can beat the extreme turn-on of being at the edge of an orgasm. That is what edging—the sexual practice of stimulating a person to the brink of climax, then stopping—is all about.

Edging prolongs that heightened state of arousal a person feels just prior to sexual explosion. The sensual state where fingers tingle, ears ring, whistles blow, hearts pound, and a person’s body vibrates with excitement.

Here are ten ways to make sure you stay on orgasm’s delicious edge:

Slow It Down, Don’t Rush

Slow, deliberate strokes and stimulation will get you there, but will more intensely arouse you along the way. If you are stroking yourself or getting jerked-off by someone else, you might as well enjoy the sensual ride while getting there.

So ease up.  Really take the time to feel your cock getting hard.  Feel the full lips slowly roaming up and down your cock, licking the tip. You’ll get to your climax plateau soon enough and you’ll stay at that hyper-sensitive peak longer by taking it slow.

Be Time Sensitive

Timing is everything. From knowing the amount of time it takes for you or your partner to reach your peak before climax, to the edging practice of timed stimulation, where a person is stimulated for a specific period of time and then the stimulation is stopped. Utilize both to enhance the edging experience.

Rest Periods

An important component of orgasm edging is the rest period, the time-out session where stimulation is stopped for awhile. This period naturally allows the body to slow down and briefly de-intensify.

The cool part of a rest period is that the turn-on remains. A rest period simply allows another cycle of build-up to the edge of orgasm.

Vary Intensity

Varying how much and how hard someone’s cock is stroked or sucked, or a woman’s pussy is licked, fingered or fucked, directly determines how long and successfully that person will stay on the verge of orgasm and how intensely they will do so.

Vary Stimulation

Varying stimulation directly affects a person’s ability to continue on the edge of orgasm. Most edging techniques include varying type, time and consistency of stimulation. Most importantly, know when you or your partner is about to cum. And know how to lessen or completely withdraw stimulation accordingly, to bring either of you up to the edge of orgasm, not over it.

Open Your Mouth and Say Something

Communicate, people. The foundation of successful edging is to know what rocks your boat sexually and how to communicate it. To stay on the edge of orgasm you must be able to share with your partner what turns you on, what gets you excited and when she should suspend stimulation of your cock if she doesn’t quite know when. That means, whisper nicely in her ear to stop sucking your balls if she’s about to make you cum-explode.

Riding the Edge Of Orgasm: Listen To Your Partner’s Cues

Now it’s your turn. Listen to and for her sexual cues. In the heat of a good night of you giving her pussy a good fuck or eating her out, it might be hard for her to express that she’s on the verge of cumming herself.

So watch and listen for those body cues. If her legs do that twitchy thing when she’s about to erupt in a climax, back off and slow down. Do what you have to do to maintain her level at the edge.

Riding the Edge Of Orgasm: Know When To Hold ’Em

This is the big cheese of the edging technique, the temporary holding back or denying of orgasm and knowing when to do it. You have to know when you are about to cum in order to adjust intensity of stimulation, back off that intensity and prolong the super-high, I’m-about-to-cum feeling.

Listen to your body, her body and make adjustments. Learn when your body is nearing climax, not a nano-second away, so that withdrawing stimulation at that moment will be a pleasure-extending delight, not a cock-squirting disaster.

Know When To Walk Away and When To Cum

To enjoy the hyper-body sensation of edging, orgasm is delayed for a period of time, but not before stimulation to the brink of orgasm is achieved. Knowing the precise time to stop and walk away from that experience of almost orgasm, to enjoy that extended stimulation period of hours, days or sometimes weeks, is an integral part of staying on the edge.

It isn’t enough to know to just stop the sexual stimulation leading up to the edge, cause that can be done at anytime. It is knowing the exact moment to stop so that you feel the the full-blown effect of edging.  And finally, know when to give in to the climax and reap the benefits of all that waiting.