Mutual Masturbation Edging
Have you ever tried mutual masturbation edging? It can be quite exciting! Ready to give it a try?
Time to turn the hum-drum into a hungry, horny, finger-fantastic time for you and your sex partner. Specifically, it’s time to incorporate edging into your mutual masturbation time. So squirt some lube, warm up those hands, spread her legs and let’s get started.
Do I Know What Edging Is?
Actually, while you are spreading her legs, you might want to learn exactly what edging is. Edging is defined as the sexual technique of sensual stimulation that culminates with the controlled holding back of an orgasm, resulting in a prolonged state of hyper-arousal.
It’s the method of stimulating yourself, or a partner, to the peak of orgasm and backing-off from the actual climax so you both can enjoy that turned-on body sensation for an extended period of time. You may have heard of it before when you went to the doctor for that little premature ejaculation problem, but whatever, you didn’t really listen then. But here you are now and you are ready to go.
Edging and Mutual Masturbation: The Slow Build
The first technique combines a slow speed of mutual stimulation with building intensity. The cool-ass thing about all these techniques is that you can masturbate yourself and watch each other, incorporating that element into your stimulation. Or you can masturbate each other. Whichever pair of fingers work for you, go with it.
Let’s assume for this example that you are rocking each other’s world. Spread her legs and let her hands wrap around your cock. You finger the area just to one side of her clitoral hood with slow, steady strokes. She should be slow-stroking your cock, all the way up and down, to the base of your shaft and to the tip of your dick. Focus on the slow part, gentle, an easy start. You want to have a place to build to.
Pay attention to what you are feeling, where her strokes feel the best, near the base or toward the tip. Mentally register where she most responds to your touch. Does she squirm and move with you when you rub at the top of her clit or when you are flush against the side?
Build to as much pleasure as you can take for three minutes, then stop. Rest for enough time to sip some wine, pour coffee, or just lay back in bed, then begin again.
Continue the mutual cycle until you are at the peak of orgasm and then stop. Completely stop. Turn away from each other, get out of bed, and go about your business for the next 24 hours. Then meet up back in the bedroom and repeat the process, this time ending with mutual kaboom-kaboom, mega-intense orgasms. You will definitely notice the difference.
Hot and Heavy Edging Mutual Masturbation
A less practiced method of edging, but somewhat successful, is the stimulation method of heavy heat, where you stimulate like crazy, fast and concentrated, to a quick about-to-cum plateau, then abruptly stop. Fans who really dig this technique say they enjoy the adrenaline road to edging. That is the burning high of the rapid heartbeat and rush to the edge.
The one drawback is that it takes real discipline and self-knowledge to know when to end stimulation and to hold back the orgasm after such intensity combined with such an abrupt stop. Many orgasms have been ruined practicing this technique. But if you and your partner can master it, it’s a hell-of-a-rush for sure.
The Timing Method
You’ll need a timer, or a smart phone — one that has seconds in the alarm or timing display. You’ll begin by having her slowly stroke your dick up and down for a set amount of time. A suggestion for beginners is 15 seconds. You stimulate with your finger just inside her vagina or along her clit for the same amount of time.
Then rest for thirty seconds. Begin again by adding 10 seconds onto the stimulation time and 20 seconds onto the rest period for every new stimulation cycle until you both are at the precipice of busting-out that cum. Then you completely stop, resisting the temptation to finish it off for as long as you can that day. Try to wait for several hours. Then begin the cycle again, this time allowing yourselves to erupt in a mutual high. Your explosive climax will never have felt so good.
The timing method can be a little complicated and if the idea of having to watch the time is not for you, skip it. But if you are willing to commit, the ongoing orgasmic results are totally worth it.
More Mutual Masturbation Edging?
Voyeurism, domination and role-play are all additional elements you can add into the mutual masturbation mix for a heightened arousal experience.
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