Extreme Edging and Ruined Orgasms
Let’s talk about extreme edging and ruined orgasms. You may think a ruined orgasm doesn’t sound exciting, but I assure you, it is!
Edging, the popular sexual technique of steady stimulation that culminates with the controlled holding back of an orgasm, has been taken to a new plateau—extreme edging. Extreme edging differentiates itself from the traditional edging techniques in its extremely prolonged state of hyper-arousal and not denial, or delay or orgasm, but the ruination of orgasms.
Where basic edging is the practice of self or partnered stimulation to the peak of orgasm and backing-off from the actual climax so that turned-on body sensation can be enjoyed for an extended period of time, extreme edging works to continuously prolong that state and permanently interfere with release by the ruination of actual orgasm.
Basic Edging Techniques: Slow Stroke and Build
This technique combines a slow speed of solo or mutual stimulation and escalating intensity. The slow stroking of a cock, or slow finger stimulation of a clit, at a steady rate, with increased degree of intensity.
The amount of intensity and speed of stimulation are increased to the point of orgasm and stopped. Only to be repeated at a later point and the hyper-aroused release allowed.
Timed Edging
This is a bit more complicated, requiring the ability to actually read numbers. You need a timer of some kind or a cell phone with a time keeping element. Begin by slowly stimulating your dick or her pussy for a set amount of time. A suggestion for beginners is 15 seconds.
Then rest for thirty seconds. Start up again by adding 10 seconds onto the stimulation time and 20 seconds onto the rest period for every new stimulation cycle until you are at the precipice of busting-out that cum. Then completely stop, and finish it off later in the day for an explosive climax.
The Extreme Part of Edging and Ruined Orgasms
Extreme edging practices focuses on the principle of repeated stimulation and interrupted release. Extreme edging utilizes the above-mentioned techniques, repeating each cycle over and over again in a brief amount of time.
What differs is that, at the end of a cycle, the stimulation is allowed to continue into orgasm and the climax is abruptly interrupted, so that a full release is never achieved and in theory, leaves a person’s body constantly aching for more.
Ruined Orgasms: How is it Done?
Using any of the edging methods; slow-stroke, timing, or hot and heavy, stimulate yourself to the point of orgasm, the edge of that climax and give in or push the first part of release. Whatever stimulation is happening, jerking, fingering, fucking, or sucking is continued into the cycle where you can actually feel your body releasing or cumming and then that stimulation is abruptly stopped, so you experience a partial orgasm- also known as a ruined orgasm- at best.
The principle behind this is that if you interrupt the complete release that comes with orgasm, over and over again, when you finally allow yourself or your partner to explode in a full orgasm, it will be nothing like you have ever experienced before. It will set your senses on fire and blow your mind, or so the extreme edging theorists suggest.
The differing and most important element in the extreme edging equation is the actual start and interruption of that orgasm. For the extreme hyper-sensual results to have that super-intense magnitude, climax must actually begin and be stopped during eruption. The additional extreme element is the repetition of that cycle. Extreme edgists strongly suggest the pattern of ruined or interrupted orgasm continue for weeks at the very least and for a month or more, even better.
Extreme edgists are all about mucho sex, it’s just ruined orgasms, where you only allow yourself to fully release maybe once a week or once a month. Extreme edgists swear there is nothing like it. Now it’s up to you to check it out!
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