The Beginner’s Guide To Orgasm Edging
Are you sexually adventurous? Sexually bored? Are you ready to explore? If so, this guide to orgasm edging is for you!
Well, pull up a chair and get comfortable, because you’re about to learn a thing or two. Here’s a step-by-step, how-to guide that will pump-up your adult play time, bolster your sexual intensity, and magnify your arousal experience to mind-blowing proportions.
Welcome to the world of “edging,” also known as orgasm denial or peaking. Edging is the intentional suppression of an orgasm to sustain and prolong the hyper-intense sexual peak a person experiences right before they climax.
Edging is all about practice, awareness and, of course, the most amazing sex ever. Ready to start?
Guide To Orgasm Edging: Individual Edging
Do you masturbate? If you answered, “Hell, yeah,” then good! You’re ahead of the game because edging is all about knowing how you peak, how long it takes you to peak, and exactly when you are about to squirt that cum-wad into someone’s mouth, hand or vagina. If you masturbate twenty times a day or two times a day, either way, you’ve got to know your dick.
A suggested way to start is to slow-stroke yourself to orgasm. Touch your dick, feel your balls, let your hand run up and down the shaft. Find the parts of your dick that are super-sensitive. Is it the head of your cock? Maybe you’re hyper-sensitive at the base of your shaft. Then again, maybe having your ball sac squeezed is really what turns you on. Just learn what it is.
Then, very, very slowly touch it, stroke it, and squeeze it till you cum. Afterward, don’t touch your dick or fuck anyone for the next twenty-four hours. The next day, do the opposite. Stroke yourself to a quick orgasm and stop.
Those first two days are to physiologically set up extremes for you to study and learn your body stages of arousal and eruption.
Taking You To the Brink
Day three, you break into the discipline of it all. Timing, pacing, and restraint/denial, the actual edging or peaking itself. One suggested technique is stroking your dick and fingering your balls for one minute, then resting for two minutes, repeating until you are as close to orgasm as you can possibly be and then stop, denying yourself that explosive release.
Another suggested technique is a combination of both intensity and timing. Stroke your cock very slowly, up and down, ten times, for thirty-to-forty seconds and then rest it for the remainder of a minute. Repeat the technique, but this time add five more strokes in the same amount of seconds. The entire rhythm is continued for twenty minutes, taking you to the brink of orgasm and leaving you in a heart-pounding, dick-throbbing, body-tingling about-to-explode state for hours.
With practice and frequency, your sexual senses and genital arousals will regularly be prolonged and intensified.
Edging With a Partner
Communication is key when it comes to paired-edging. You have to know your partner’s body and she has to know as much about your sexual hot spots and feelings as well, so don’t be shy. Talk to each other. If it gets you extra hot when she fingers your asshole or bites your balls a little, tell her.
If it kills your hard-on when she pinches your nipples, let her know. And vice-versa. Pay attention when she asks you to move it a little to the right, or faster, harder, or not at all. All those clues will make you a master edger when it’s time to rock the bedroom.
Some couples’ jump-off point into the world of edging with a partner is side-to-side masturbation. They self-masturbate for a timed period, stop, and, repeat until both are on the verge of cumming. They then refrain from sexual activity for the next twenty-four hours.
Crazy Hot, Horny and Intense Fun
Another technique for two combines oral sex with manual stimulation. A woman begins by slow-stroking a man’s cock, up and down the shaft, massaging the tip, cupping the balls, for a timed period of one-to-two minutes, then stops. At the same time the man gently applies pressure with one finger on the woman’s clitoral hood and slow-strokes just inside her vagina with another finger, again for a timed-period of one-to-two minutes, then stops.
The manual stimulation cycle is followed by a timed, intensity-controlled oral sex cycle, either side-to-side or in the traditional sixty-nine position. Start by spreading her legs and lick, planting your tongue beside her clitoris and tease-lick it, while she opens her mouth, takes in your cock and begins a slow-tease blow-job on you. You bring each other to that hot, crazy peak before orgasm. Then stop, and again refrain from any sexual contact or stimulation the rest of the day.
Sounds crazy, right? It is! Crazy hot, horny and intense fun. So grab some lube, give one of our Orgasm Edging Mistresses a call, and get started!