Edging Your Way To a Better Sex Life
Do you find yourself having a hum-drum,, boring sex life? Are your masturbation sessions the same way? Orgasm Edging may be the answer!
Human beings are one of the most creative and driving forces on the planet (besides good, old Mother Nature). But they can also be the most mundane creatures-of-habit as well.
Consequently, many (including yourself) may find themselves stuck in routine, if not boring, sex lives. That can be as singles or couples. Are you part of that unfortunate group? If you are, it’s time to try something new, something that just might be the feel-good tonic you need: orgasm edging.
If you’ve never heard of it before, edging is the sexual practice of stimulating to the point of climax and then withdrawing the stimulation to prevent an orgasm from occurring. Edging prolongs the intense sexual peak a person experiences right before climax. The intentional holding back of orgasm is done to maintain the hyper-stimulated sensations and allow for an even bigger sexual eruption at a later time.
Historically, edging techniques were used as a means to treat men with premature ejaculation syndromes. Now they are used purely for their intensely stimulating and satisfying effects. Ready for a crash course?
Edging: The Timing Method
You’ll need a stop-watch, a timer, or a smart phone— one that has a time display with seconds. You’ll begin slowly stroking your dick up and down for a set amount of time. A suggestion for a beginning level would be 15 seconds. Then rest for thirty seconds.
Begin again by adding 10 seconds onto the stimulation time and 20 seconds onto the rest period for every new stimulation cycle you begin, until you are on the precipice of busting-out that cum. Then, you stop and resist the temptation to finish it off for as long as you can. An initial suggested waiting period is 24 hours.
It can sound a little complicated. That said, if the whole concept of having to watch the time is not for you, there are other methods below that may be an easier turn-on. But, if you are willing to commit, determine your own number of seconds and play with the latitude a bit, the results will be totally worth it.
The Slow-Stroke Edging Method
This edging technique, in particular, betters your sex life because you discover what sensations really turn you on, if slow-strokes or super fast ones get you hard. To start, it’s simple. Slow-stroke yourself. Feel your ball sac, let your hand run up and down the shaft, find the parts of your dick that are super-sensitive. Perhaps it’s the tip of your cock or the scrotum. Maybe squeezing them makes you want to cum. Just learn and remember.
Slowly touch it, stroke it and squeeze your cock until you are about to cum and abruptly stop the stimulation. Then don’t touch your dick or fuck anyone for the next twenty-four hours. That next day, don’t quick-cum but slow-stroke yourself to orgasm.
You will definitely notice a heightened sense-of-urgency as you get aroused. Repeat this stimulation and restraint process for the next week, enjoying the intensified results. That’s better than the boring beat-it shit that’s been going on in your sex life, right?
The Abrupt Heavy Heat Method
A less practiced method of edging, but somewhat successful, is the super-stimulation method of heavy heat, where you stroke yourself like crazy, fast and hard, to a quick about-to-cum plateau and abruptly stop. Fans who particularly enjoy this technique say they totally dig the adrenaline rush to the edge, the super-quick high of the fast heartbeat and titillation.
The one drawback is the discipline and self-knowledge it takes to stop, so abruptly, after such an intense rush, without squirting that cum. Many blown-wads were wasted trying out this technique. But if you can master it, it’s definitely worth the practice and will better your sex life in the process.
Introduce What You’ve Learned
Now to really better that sex life, find a sexy fuck buddy and teach her all you know!
Mutual masturbation is the place to start. Slow-stroke or slow-lick her clit using the same stimulation techniques you’ve mastered on your own. Or toss some voyeurism in the mix by teaching her to slow-finger herself while you masturbate and watch.
There are steady-stimulation methods you can try like the “Venus Butterfly,” which is one part friction, one part finger-stimulation, and two parts turn-on.
Or jump her bones and teach her the abrupt heavy method, where you stick her pussy till she’s about to scream and you’re about to blow your head, then stop, roll over. She’ll be asking you what the fuck and begging you to finish!
Indeed, edging and delayed orgasm deliver you creative and pleasurable ways to better that humdrum sex life you’ve got going on. So, unzip your pants and get yourself going today!