Edging and Orgasm Denial

The sexual arousal and stimulation techniques of edging and orgasm denial are well known and practiced in their own right. Combined, they are a turn-on force to be reckoned with.

“Edging” is referred to by many names: “tease and denial,” “taking it to the brink,” “peaking,” “surfing.” They are all phrases used to describe the sexual practice of holding back a sexual climax to prolong the powerful, intense sensations attributed to the period directly before a person orgasms.

Lengthening that period directly before orgasm becomes “Orgasm Denial,” denying an orgasmic release for extended periods: days, weeks, or even months. In recent years, both practices have exploded onto the scene. Their popularity, as well as Internet discussions on both disciplines, are flourishing.

Bottom line, edging and orgasm denial are hot. Solo or with a partner. Slow, consistent stimulation, and then denial, bring you to a pre-orgasm plateau, keeping you in a mega-state of arousal for a hot, horny, excited amount of extended time. Sound like something that makes you horny?

If you haven’t experienced the exciting benefits of edging and orgasm denial, here are a few ways to start:

Solo Edging and Orgasm Denial

Edging is about practice, awareness, and timing. As absurd as it sounds, it requires a degree of skill. It’s not just – stimulate yourself and stop. Edging requires familiarity and self-awareness to be sensually successful. If you stimulate too little or too much, edging can be a bust.

An easy way to start is stroke-counting. Now, that you can do, right? Slowly stroke your dick a set number of times, usually 100, then stop. Give yourself a short rest period, 15 to 25 seconds. Then repeat the cycle until you are on the verge of blowing your wad and stop again. Refrain from any other sexual activity for the next 24 hours. That is the denial element. Stimulation, restraint and finally denial are the key. The challenge is to self-stimulate to the very powerful edge of climax without giving in to the orgasmic urge.

Hyper Sensitized Horny Feeling

A second solo technique focuses on timing or the stroking, not an actual stroke count itself. For a brief period, say 20 seconds or so, slow-stroke your dick, then stop. Rest for a longer period, 30 seconds is a suggested place to start. And then repeat the cycle, this time stroking your dick a little bit faster and for five seconds longer. Then also add an extra five seconds to your rest time. Continue until you are on the verge of cumming and deny yourself the orgasm. Put it off for twenty-four hours at least.

The intense pleasure of the edging/orgasm denial combo is the repetitive cycle of stimulation to the peak of orgasm, stopping it and the resulting sexual high of walking around, or continuing on your day, with the hyper-sensitized horny feeling rocking your body. Edging/orgasm denial practitioners swear that by bringing yourself repeatedly to the edge and abstaining on a regular basis, it super-heightens the explosion when you finally allow yourself to release. Now, who wouldn’t want to experience that?

Partnered Edging and Orgasm Denial

So, if you have mastered your masturbation and are ready to bring in the hot woman with the dripping wet pussy next to you on the bed, then try out one of these partnered edging/orgasm denial techniques:

“One Hour Orgasm” technique is where a man uses his fingers to gently stimulate a woman’s clitoris while the woman and man are lying down, their legs wrapped around each other. The man stimulates his partner to the peak of orgasm by using steady stimulation on the side of her clitoral hood with one finger, while another finger or his tongue penetrates inside her vagina. The dual, stimulation continues until the woman is about to climax and then stopped. Orgasm is denied at that moment. Stimulation is followed by a rest period and then repeated again and stopped, denying orgasm for a day, week, or longer.

Additional edging techniques combine the finger-vagina penetration with simultaneous anal penetration with a finger, bringing her to a frenzied peak and then denial.

Mutual edging and orgasm denial can incorporate mutual masturbation with voyeurism, where you watch each other masturbate and deny yourselves a cum-explosion. Or it can incorporate intercourse, where you penetrate, riding the friction turn-on train, and pull out, stopping before you rocket that creamy white load into her vagina.

Others integrate the control element of edging/orgasm denial into the sex play. Have your partner determine the number of strokes you use to self-stimulate, or the amount of time you are allowed to masturbate, or how many days you arouse yourself before cumming. And vice versa. Have her masturbate, time her touch sessions. The cum-denying possibilities are endless!