Edging and Delayed Orgasm: Is It For You?

Conversations on the sexual techniques of Edging and Delayed Orgasm have exploded onto the Internet and sex-talk television and radio. The question is, are they sexual techniques that may benefit you?

There is only one answer—Hell-yes!

Originally believed to be a tantric discipline, “edging” is the sexual stimulation technique where a person brings themselves, or a partner, to the erotically charged physical plateau an individual reaches right before they orgasm—the stimulation peak. Once the peak has been hit, stimulation stops or slowly lessens it, so orgasm does not immediately occur.

“Orgasm denial” is the technique where the edging sensations are intensified by not allowing oneself or a partner to orgasm at all for a prolonged period of time, sometimes weeks.

So Why Are Edging and Delayed Orgasm For You?

Why even ask? Any sexual practice that keeps you harder, hornier, and ready-to-explode for a longer period of time is a plus, agreed? Secondly, the practice of edging gets you more in-tune with what your body likes and wants. You may think you know what your dick likes—a hot blonde in a thong, bending over her beach-towel. But how should she stroke your cock?

Do you like short-fast strokes? Perhaps you like it when she slow-strokes you up and down and fingers the tip of your dick with her fingernail? Maybe you want her to eat your balls and finger your asshole? Edging techniques prime you for teaching yourself and your partner what sensations excite you to the point of a cum ka-boom and what things annoy you so much, that you lose that hard-on or clamp her legs shut.

Edging techniques point your dick in one direction only—supreme arousal and heightened pleasure!

And if you are motivated by the clinical side of things, men who practice edging are 65% less likely to erupt when they don’t want to in a premature orgasm.

Delayed Orgasm is the icing on the edging cake or the jism on the joy. What delaying orgasm does at the end of an edging experience is to intensify the extended arousal even more. Fingers tingle, cocks bulge against jeans, and pussy-holes stay perpetually wet. Refraining from climax for a short or extended period keeps your senses electrified and nerves hyper-reactive to stimulation, leaving you perpetually on fire and aching for more. Enough discussion, let’s get you started!

Edging and Delayed Orgasm On Your Own

First, is the lube handy? You have some hand lotion? If not, you may want to make a quick trip to the store and get your personal supply because the masturbation train is about to leave the station. When you’re back, lube up your cock and begin by slowly stroking it, the keyword being slow. Don’t get jiggy-ass quick right away.

It’s time to break the hurry-up-and-cum habit and embrace a new one. Take a deep breath and enjoy the work-up. Pay attention to the way you’re stroking your cock. Is the feel of the friction turning you on? Do you start to stroke it faster as you get harder? Does it feel better at the base of the shaft or closer to the tip?

Bring yourself as close to the edge as possible without squirting that joy juice, then stop. Drop your hand. Have a beer. Is your heart still racing? Are your balls on fire? Congrats, man! You did a good job. Nevertheless, walk away from that orgasm for 24 hours. Over that time you’ll notice your senses are closer to the surface. Your cock still feels like it’s just a stroke away from explosion.

Body-Tingling Results

Other methods of edging/delayed orgasm include counting the number of strokes you are allowed to reach your edge, like 300 or so, adding a mental limit to getting yourself aroused. Another suggests timed tease. An example would be something like this: stroke your cock slow, up and down, ten times in 40 seconds, then rest for 20 seconds.

The next minute add five more strokes, making it 15 strokes in 40 seconds, then rest again for 20 seconds. Repeat that for 20 minutes, with five additional cock strokes added each time, till you reach the edge. You are not allowed to cum. Delay your orgasm for 24 hours at the very least. Push it two or three days if you can or more. With practice, orgasm can be delayed for a week with body-tingling results.

Practice is everything, so masturbate-masturbate-masturbate until you’ve mastered it! You’ll soon be ready to share the edging and delayed orgasm secrets with your partner. Begin with mutual masturbation.

Learn more about her turn-ons as she learns about yours. Graduate to specific techniques, like the “Venus Butterfly” or “One Hour Orgasm.” You’ll soon be rocking the bedroom like a sex-star and she’ll be begging for more!