Orgasm Edging With a Partner

Have you ever tried orgasm edging with a partner? Now that you’ve mastered orgasm edging through self-masturbation, why not try it?

You want to take those expanded cum-holding, stimulation skills out there into the duo world where pleasuring your partner makes you the hot-cock on the block.  The legend of crazy intense orgasms with you will spread like horny wildfire and your phone will buzz-off-the-hook from all the women calling to hook-up with you.

Ready to roll with that? Let’s go.

Edging With a Partner: It’s All About the Timing

One of the beginning tenets of edging is timed stimulation. Initially, as much of a pain-in-the-ass timing anything sexual can be, it is an incredible tool (besides yours of course) when it comes to sexual arousal, intensity and gratification.

You can approach it in several ways. One might be timing it as precisely as possible. For example, you agree to stimulate each other for a set period of time and then stop. Most suggest beginning with a short interval, like 20 seconds. So for 20 seconds you stimulate each other then stop. Rest for 20 seconds. Then begin again. This cycle repeats for several minutes, ten or more, until you both are on the verge of climax.

And then you refrain from any sexual contact, stimulation, or release for an extended period of time. Twenty-four hours is the average. But if you and your partner are about to scream ’cause you can’t take the intensity of waiting, go ahead and get jiggy. Finish it up. Just remember, the practice of edging, that extension of your heightened state of intense arousal, requires refraining from orgasm for a period of time to enjoy its delicious benefits. So try to hold out till the next day if you can.

Timing is also about learning the amount of time it takes to get your partner on the edge of orgasm. So pay attention. You may be ready fifteen seconds in, but she may take a little longer. Or maybe you need more stroking to get there yourself. The key to that knowledge helps you adjust the intensity of the stimulation and how much time you stimulate, accordingly.

Sensitivity and Intensity

The next step in the edging-with-a-partner equation is sensitivity and intensity. The what-and-how of what makes her pussy slippery wet and ready to sit on that dick is what you will need to learn next. Communication slips in here, too. Sex isn’t a “don’t ask, don’t tell” situation. It’s about speaking up and letting each other know what the hell feels good and what doesn’t.

One beginning sensitivity/intensity exercise incorporates a bit of timing. For 25 seconds touch each other slowly and indirectly, bordering on a tease. Stroke the sides of her clit, or slowly push inside her hole. Have her slow-stroke your cock with minimum pressure, or cup your balls and slow-roll them with her fingers. Then stop. Rest an entire 60 seconds.

As the cycle repeats, intensify the stimulation. Speed it up, make it harder. Continue to escalate the intensity and sensitivity of your mutual stimulation and then stop. Again, for a twenty-four hour period if you can manage that.

Now Get Creative and Go Play!

Once you and your partner are hot, horny, and comfortable with the basics, take those foundations and explore. The well-known “Venus Butterfly” position, that combines tantalizing friction with fornication, is an edging technique masterpiece.

If you are a pussy-eater and your partner loves nothing more than a thick dick in her mouth, substitute sucking and licking for fingering and fucking, or incorporate them both!

If spanking turns you on, time your spank periods, and intensity of the paddling. Maybe you like to have her slap at your balls a little when she’s flogging your ass. Maybe she likes it when you spank her fast, in sharp little swats. Try timed sessions where you spank and then stop, or stimulation limited sessions, where you only spank once or twice and then stop.

If voyeurism is your thing, watch each other touch, finger, and fuck yourself to the edge of orgasm and then stop. Continue that self-masturbation, voyeuristic cycle for a couple of days and then finally suck, lick, and fuck each other to an explosive release.

Edging gets you in touch and in sync with your own body and your partner’s, so make the horny most of it. Come up with your own time periods and stimulations and enjoy the prolonged pleasure!

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